transitioning

 

Transitioning has evolved out of meeting many people over a number of years and helping them to directly address the problems that they appear to be facing in their lives. The aim of transitioning is to as quickly as possible help a client to get to the point of realizing that they are their own best resource, rather than looking to anything external.

The fact that someone is sitting with me is really only because a process of change has already begun to happen in them well BEFORE they find themselves sitting with me. A problem that is longstanding has begun to seriously interfere with their quality of life, but the problem really is that the movement of their lives is pulling them towards some sort of change and they are resisting it, the problem is a rock that is attempting to resist the current.

The rock might be a physical sympton, or sleep problem, or a feeling of inadequacy, a loss of confidence, things come to a head in some way. The change is a change within and the problem is wanting things to be some other way, magically, but life is magical per se and it doesn't need extra magic. I can say that because change is just as much a reality for me right now as it is for anyone I might be sitting with. I'm no better at it than they are, but if I provide a focal point for someone within the context of a natural process of change that's exactly what can happen according to life's own innate magic.

Often people need to go through a 180 degree change with their problem before anything really starts to move.Often a person is completely at war with themselves for not being the version of themselves that doesn't have this problem -- sympton free, supercool, slim and confident, successful So at a level that is usually not obvious to them they are cranking up the problem by hating themselves for having it and wanting it to be surgically removed from their life. This is actually a very destructive feeling that won't let anything creative happen.

In order for the natural flow of a persons life to take care of the problem some compassion has to release. The problem emotions or symptons or behaviour has to be acknowledged and owned not hated and disowned. This is really the where change begins to occur and it's usually not the change we originally had in mind because that one is actually part of the problem.

Transitioning doesn't have a fixed pattern it developes naturally as the client focuses more strongly on their own innate strength. My role is to help the client to realize that.

These sessions are available in a block of six over a period of about six weeks at 240 pounds.

Most people will not undertake a course of six sessions of hypnotherapy purely from financial considerations. Transitioning gives you greatly reduced outlay to really give the process the time it deserves. The offer lasts until end of January 2011.

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